hmm. can say im tempted to blog about this matter after viewing emily's and amanda's blog. what is love. how do you define it?
nowadays really saw too much break ups le. till the extent, it sometimes do let me think about it. does people treat this word love as such a common word? yea, im sure u, who are reading now, have at least said it to someone. but deep down, do you feel the same way? now, it just seems like a common word for all of us, and there seems no meaning in this anymore. cause now, you can no longer be sure of what they are thinking deep down. just like wad amanda said, love WAS once a sacred word for lovers. which made me totally impressed. for example, take a look at some of other people's blog. one guy professing his love or saying i love you.i love you.i love you.etc. as a 3rd party, what will u be thinking at that moment? i dont know what will view will be was, but the 1st thing that came to my mind is - he's juz trying to fu1 yan3 her. thou i myself blog about relationship this thing, but feels equally confused up as well.
alot cases, is when people go for looks. what most guys (not all) do 1st is - look at her appearance. how many times, have guys really looked at e gal's inner character? when guys feel that she has e looks, then he will start to go after her, saying i love you, i like u, etc etc. time proves everything. i guess this i need not explain ba. if this was e case, i rather be someone with no looks, becuz when u got e looks, it jus give me tis feeling. the guy just like you for how u look, not for the way you are, the way u carry urself.
now, to me, i feel that love it is something like ke3 yu4 bu4 ke3 qiu2. i do yearn for a someone to be there for me, to lend a shoulder when i need it. it just made me feel so envious of other couples. ive been through a relationship, and now single. sometimes, after sometime in a relationship, u will be envy of other people who are single, having to much freedom. i guess. this is maybe also a hint to you that ur feelings for ur partner is fading le. but when ure single again, u contradicts urself. u wan to be in a relationship back again. funny isnt it? those who are single wans to b in a relationship while some in a relationship wans to be back single again. well at e least, some. (:
but for now, it just still something which i do not dare and want to touch it again. im afraid of being hurt, or whatever. it just seems like a gamble. if u decided to go for it, you muz be prepared for whats up ahead of you. LOVE seems so simple yet complicated. sometimes complicated, but yet simple. do u have a definite answer for that?
whenever you think or feel that you're starting to take notice of a guy or suspecting that ur feelings are developing for that particular guy, ask urself. is it a crush, or just mere infatuation. as urself. if not u might jus getting urself badly wounded n hurt at e end of the day. same thing, why should we rush for time? its still early to give a conclusion for urself, just like what i told many others. you wont know when ur Mr. Right is appearing. (:
crush/infatuation which is it? u urself noe best. ((:
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